No — Being Single is Not a Personality Trait | Korea Artiz Studio

First, let’s start by defining what a personality trait is.

Personality trait: the quality or state of being a person. Personal existence.

I don’t know about you, but I know my personal existence here is not just to be “single, in a relationship, or married”. Honey, those are just titles. Not every title holds strong enough to define you. Honestly, no title defines you. Could you imagine that instead of your existence being made up of love, laughter, career moves, family, friends etc., your existence was to specifically define one term and one term only: single.

If we let titles define us, we would be defined by anything someone called us. That is what we are NOT doing in 2021. Just because Sally on main street called you a raging bitch does not make you an actual raging bitch. Everyone is entitled to bad days just as much as good days. You are not defined by a bad moment or even a bad week. Your personality isn’t even defined by one moment, one day, or one week. Your personality ends up being defined by years of routine reactions and life practices.

We have so many purposes to serve in our lifetime, some as small as making someone’s bad day just a little bit better and others as big as saving someone’s whole life. I have found one main purpose to my existence, and that is to be the best mother I can be to my daughter. I am able to do that no matter my relationship status. From what I hear, I’m doing a pretty good job being a mom and being single.

Look at it this way: No matter how much you love a person, do you really want to be defined by just them? Do you really want people to look at you and say, “They were created to be single” or “they were born just to be their significant other.” One of your biggest and most important purposes in life may be to complete your significant other, and that’s an amazing dream come true. But you’re still more than just the missing piece to their puzzle. You’re still someone’s son, daughter, brother, sister, friend, employee, mother, father etc.

You absolutely do NOT want your personality to be seen as “their significant other”. You want your personality to be defined in ways such as “beautiful inside and out” or “genuine and kind” or ” strong” or “outgoing”. Those personality traits are far more full of life and purpose. Those are the personality traits that will never leave you empty and will continue to serve even after you’re gone. Those are the personality traits you want defining you.

“They are single.” So? That even sounds ridiculous. Your personality traits are what make you who you are. Go be great. Go enjoy life. Go be as single as you want. It will never define you. It will never be your personality; it is not who you are. You are you. You are beautiful, honest, genuine, and fun. Being single does not affect that. You are you, and that’s pretty great.

So no, being single is not a personality trait. It is a title. A title that will never define you.

About Artiz Studio:

Free from the influence of time & place, our portraits capture a moment that is timeless. This is our aim when capturing any photo. As a child, I was deeply moved when I saw a photo of my grandparents together, bathed in a soft red light. I can never forget the impression that photo left on me, it had a large impact on me and my photography. I wish for brides and grooms to have the same feelings that I experienced when they receive their portraits. The most beautiful moments of loving couples should be retained forever. — Founder Kim Yong Seon

Founded In Busan, Korea Since 2008, South Korea Network KBS Central Has Named Artiz As One Of The Leading Bridal Fashion Icon And Wedding Provider For Authentic Korean-Style Photography. Capturing Timeless Portraits For More Than 20 Million Couples Throughout The 45 Situated Studio Locations. Our Unique Background Setting Crafted By SBS Korea Landscape Designers Has Propelled Artiz Within The Ranks Of Luxury Wedding Photography Elites Throughout The World, Delivering World-Leading Standards And Services.

Ushering In Artiz Global Success Was The Expansion To Singapore’s Wedding Scene In 2017 And Has Been Crowned Unanimously As Singapore’s Largest Indoor Wedding Studio And Sole Provider For Authentic Korean-Style Wedding Photography.

Our Extensive Portfolio Of Over 200 A-List Celebrities Endorsements And Mutual Collaborative Shoots With Local Top-Tier Influencers And Media Publications Has Propelled Artiz Into The Ranks Of Singapore’s Wedding Elites. This Includes Jian Hao Tan (Frobes 30 Under 30, 2016) With His Now Wife Debbie Soon (Influencer), Jade Rasif (Rank #2 South East Asia DJ, 2020), Naomi Neo (Singapore’s Most Followed Female Influencer, 2020) As Well As LGBTQ Activism Shoot For Andee Chua And Hugo Lim (Youtuber Influencer, Runway Model And LGBTQ Activist)

Artiz Has Seen To Also Paved The Way For Luxury Wedding And Bridal Providers, Having Earned Featured Publications In Over 200 Global Media Channels Worldwide Such As ELLE, COSMOPOLITAN BRIDE, VOGUE & HERWORLD Singapore

Your Wedding Day Is One Of The Most Important Days In Everyone’s Life, And We Hope That It Would Be Captured In Every Detail. Artiz Promises A Distinctive Style & Fresh POV To Photography By Shooting Natural Expressions And Moments Of Each Bride & Groom , Which Leave Not Only A Memory But Also Touches The Soul. Our Timeless Glamour And Luxurious Ambience Has Earned Us The Reputation As The Premier Studio Where Stars Have Chosen To Express Their Love Story.

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Artiz Studio was founded in Busan, South Korea in 2008 and has since become the most fashionable and popular Korean style wedding photography brand globally