You Can Love A Broken Man, But You Can’t Fix Him | Korea Artiz Studio

You’re a deep lover. Your empathy makes it easy for you to understand other people’s emotions. You look for opportunities to give second and third chances. You find satisfaction in helping people through difficult times, especially those you care about.

It’s no surprise that you attract men who need healing. When it comes to love, remember that a partner also brings you healing. You’re not required to save everyone, nor can you. You can love a broken man, but you can’t fix him.

A broken man is never truly happy. He won’t admit it, but you’ll see it in the way he treats you. You’ll see it in the way he speaks to and about you. He can’t stand looking at you. He knows you deserve better. Your happiness reminds him of his misery and abusing you makes him feel powerful.

A broken man is emotionally unavailable. He keeps you at a distance. He’s not willing or able to communicate effectively. He holds back, he’s guarded. He’ll sabotage the relationship by making the littlest things more difficult than they need to be.

A broken man doesn’t take responsibility for his life or his happiness. He refuses to do the work. He blames the world for everything negative that’s happened to him.

A broken man makes you question your worth, feel ashamed and crazy. He sends you through emotional turmoil. He drains your soul. A broken man doesn’t love himself, so he can never fully love you. You believe in him more than he believes in himself. You spend more energy trying to love him than you spend loving yourself.

You can love a broken man, but you can’t fix him.

He has to want to do the work. He has to see the value of holding himself to a higher standard. You can send him a stack of self-improvement books. You can link a thousand inspirational videos, journal prompts, and workbooks, but it won’t fix his brokenness unless he wants to.

Sometimes loving him means letting go and loving yourself. You’ve tried, supported, and been patient. You aren’t giving up on him as he may accuse. You’re making room for yourself. He has to be present in his recovery or you’ll end up digging up old wounds.

It hurts to leave because you know what it’s like to feel alone. You don’t want to give up on him, but you’ve done all you can. What’s left now is to pray. Pray that he’ll receive healing from past hurts. Pray that you’ll receive peace no matter the outcome. You can love a broken man, but still, you can’t fix him.

About Artiz Studio:

Free from the influence of time & place, our portraits capture a moment that is timeless. This is our aim when capturing any photo. As a child, I was deeply moved when I saw a photo of my grandparents together, bathed in a soft red light. I can never forget the impression that photo left on me, it had a large impact on me and my photography. I wish for brides and grooms to have the same feelings that I experienced when they receive their portraits. The most beautiful moments of loving couples should be retained forever. — Founder Kim Yong Seon

Founded In Busan, Korea Since 2008, South Korea Network KBS Central Has Named Artiz As One Of The Leading Bridal Fashion Icon And Wedding Provider For Authentic Korean-Style Photography. Capturing Timeless Portraits For More Than 20 Million Couples Throughout The 45 Situated Studio Locations. Our Unique Background Setting Crafted By SBS Korea Landscape Designers Has Propelled Artiz Within The Ranks Of Luxury Wedding Photography Elites Throughout The World, Delivering World-Leading Standards And Services.

Ushering In Artiz Global Success Was The Expansion To Singapore’s Wedding Scene In 2017 And Has Been Crowned Unanimously As Singapore’s Largest Indoor Wedding Studio And Sole Provider For Authentic Korean-Style Wedding Photography.

Our Extensive Portfolio Of Over 200 A-List Celebrities Endorsements And Mutual Collaborative Shoots With Local Top-Tier Influencers And Media Publications Has Propelled Artiz Into The Ranks Of Singapore’s Wedding Elites. This Includes Jian Hao Tan (Frobes 30 Under 30, 2016) With His Now Wife Debbie Soon (Influencer), Jade Rasif (Rank #2 South East Asia DJ, 2020), Naomi Neo (Singapore’s Most Followed Female Influencer, 2020) As Well As LGBTQ Activism Shoot For Andee Chua And Hugo Lim (Youtuber Influencer, Runway Model And LGBTQ Activist)

Artiz Has Seen To Also Paved The Way For Luxury Wedding And Bridal Providers, Having Earned Featured Publications In Over 200 Global Media Channels Worldwide Such As ELLE, COSMOPOLITAN BRIDE, VOGUE & HERWORLD Singapore

Your Wedding Day Is One Of The Most Important Days In Everyone’s Life, And We Hope That It Would Be Captured In Every Detail. Artiz Promises A Distinctive Style & Fresh POV To Photography By Shooting Natural Expressions And Moments Of Each Bride & Groom , Which Leave Not Only A Memory But Also Touches The Soul. Our Timeless Glamour And Luxurious Ambience Has Earned Us The Reputation As The Premier Studio Where Stars Have Chosen To Express Their Love Story.

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Artiz Studio was founded in Busan, South Korea in 2008 and has since become the most fashionable and popular Korean style wedding photography brand globally